To My Dear Friends Who Are BOYS. (& he who shall be my partner one day)

Got this from some random site.

HOW TO MAKE YOUR GIRL SMILE.(:

1. Tell her she is beautiful. – Really… this is the most basic of them all, every girl wants to hear that her partner finds her attractive.

2. Hold her hand whenever you can. – Most girls love it, it makes them feel secure and appreciated.

3. Kiss her on the forehead. – Kissing her on other places apart from the mouth, shows you love all of her and not just the “goods”. It might also have something to do with hand holding since they are both things her father would have done.

4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to. – The waking up process is quite delicate, those moments after you wake up can change your whole day.Leaving a voice message to show you care, will truly make her day.

5. Always tell her shes the only girl you wanna be with. – Some girls really need reassurance about this, so telling her once in a while won’t hurt.

6. When she is upset tell her how much she means to you. – It helps her look on the bright side of things, knowing she has someone by her side to help her get through anything thats upsetting her.

7. Recognize the small things. – Anyone can recognize the big things she does, but only a person that truly cares will pay attention to everything including the small things.

8. Call her baby. – It doesn’t have to be baby, any sweet or cute nickname will do, it helps create a special boding.

9. Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is. – They like to see your willing to make a fool out of yourself for her.

10. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. – This basically means, no matter what girls your hanging out with always try to be courteous towards her and leave any girl you're talking too, to ask her out and dance.

11. Write her notes. – Writing sticky notes with cute messages and leaving them around her house/workplace is just a cute detail you can do to make her feel special.

12. Introduce her to friends as your girlfriend. – Some guys make the mistake of not mentioning your girlfriend to your friends and telling them she's just some random chick, if she finds out…. May god have mercy on your soul because she won’t.

13. Play with her hair. – Another way to show you're thinking about her.

14. Pick her up, tickle her and play wrestle with her. A cool way to show your affection, everyone wants to go back and be a kid again for a few minutes.

15. Talk to her without having to kiss her. – If your relationship is about a kiss for every 3 words you say to each other, try and get to know her more. Kissie Kissie will only get you so far.

16. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes. – Laughter has been and always will be one of the best ways to build a strong relationship.

17. Tell her when you miss her. – Call her at her work or in between classes to remind her she is being missed, leave her notes, even a sms message will do.

18. Let her fall asleep in your arms. – Helps her feel loved and secure.

19. Open her car door. – Shows her your courteous.

20. If she’s mad at you, kiss her. – It shows no matter how pissed off you guys are at each other, the most important feeling will never change.

21. Give her piggyback rides. – Being child-like and showing immaturity is always cute in a relationship.

22. Randomly tell her when you think she looks her best. – Helps her build confidence and shows that you notice her efforts to look good.

23. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. – Don’t treat her differently in front of your friends too seem cool or macho, you're just going to loose points.

24. Look her in the eyes and smile. – A silent way to show your thinking about her.

25. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants. – Some girls like to take pictures of you.Just go with the flow and let them do it, they want to have reminders of you.

26. Slow dance with her, even if there isn’t any music playing. – Random gestures of affection always help.

27. Don’t ever ignore her, no matter who is around. – There are some girls who need to know that you take her in consideration, totally ignoring her for someone else will get you into trouble.

28. Kiss her in the rain/flowers petals on her bed. – Anything romantic that sounds corny works like a charm.

29. Tell her everything thats going on your in your life. – Telling her about your day, all the little things that happen will show her that you confide in her and make her feel like shes someone you appreciate so much you can tell her your most intimate feelings.

30. WHEN you fall in love with her . . . Tell her. – Don’t tell her just for the heck of it, wait for the right time when you really mean it.If they find out you told her without meaning it, it will be a HUGE let down.

So yeah guys, DO these things for her. And to anyone out there who shall be my boyfriend/husband soon, TAKE NOTE!!

SpreadingLoveAround,

adyyiskandar.♥♥

*Release your inner CORNY MAN from within.*

Same Script, Different Cast.

The title of this post has NOTHING to do with the contents of this post. Believe me.

This post is basically about what I want in life right now.

After all the happy and horrible experiences I've had in relationships, I've discovered my weaknesses and strengths in my relationships.

I now feel ready for a loving, caring, mature and steady relationship.

No, I am not going to be so quick to jump into any oppurtunities because that's what led me in the wrong way before. I am simply gonna wait for the right guy to well, talk to me. Get to know me better, look way beyond my physical attributes and wealth of my family which does not include what I earn as I do not work yet. Which technically makes me unemployed and poor.(:

I don't know, all this while I've been used by guys and have always been the third wheel, wing girl, or matchmaker. Yes, I love making my friends happy and I am more than happy to see them so content but the thing is, I feel left out sometimes. I sometimes have the feeling where I want to be loved and cared for, to always have a companion whenever I need him. I mean, I tend to develop a guilty feeling when my friends rush to my aid when they are supposed to be spending time with their partners.

I want a relationship with a guy who loves me for who I am. I know nobody would love me for who I am because of how fat and ugly I am but hey, a girl can dream. When I find that guy who tells me that he can accept me for who I am, I will know for sure whether he is sincere and is the one for me. I've been through a lot of bullshit to know how guys tend to cover up their real deals. And obviously, I do not like PLAYERS. I mean like, what is a relationship if one of the other parties is a player? It hurds deep man.

This ideal guy should also possess a great sense of humour, but not TOO GREAT. I want him to be funny and accept jokes without taking in any offense. I want to spend time with him yet give him his free time and space for other things besides me. Despite that, he has to know how to manage the time we spend together as when I fall for someone, I REALLY love that person. So don't mistreat me! LOL.

I want someone loyal, DUH.

Damn how I wish I could have a guy like that. A guy who loves me for me. A guy who wants me because he is interested in what I am going to do or talk about next, a guy who LOVES me. Sadly, that would be hard to find.XD

Well then,

Till next time,

xxoo,

adyyiskandar.♥♥

*I AM READY FOR A STEADY RELATIONSHIP. Be Mine?♥*

Of Love, Sensitivity && Anger.

Love. I used to ask myself what exactly the meaning of this word is. But i never thought of the perfect answer and ignored that question for a very long time.


One Wednesday during Writing & Referencing Skills class, we were learning about about the EIGHT strategies of writing introductions. We were given the topic "LOVE". We were free to write anything we wanted as long as it was not too long and boring and made sense. Most importantly, we had to use one of the EIGHT strategies.


This gave me a really hard time as I did not know what to write about love. Apparently, it's a very sensitive and unmentionably hard topic for me. So this is what I wrote:


"What is love? Love is when you take care of your father even as he is lying on his death bed. Love is when you look into the eyes of your newborn baby and shed tears of joy. Love is when you still wear your wedding ring eventhough your other half has left the world ten years ago. Love is beautiful. Love is for eternity."


I was starting to feel tears forming so I did not have the guts to read it out to the whole class. I don't know how or why, but this one topic; Love, can really hit me hard in the head. And thus, my weakness is revealed. I am weak. I am invisible. I am sensitive. I am so scared to fall in love that I close both eyes when I see an oppurtunity to do so. I'm slowly trying to stop that. It's a habit I hate.


Whenever I fall for someone, I REALLY love them. But the longer the relationship is, the more insecure I get. I feel pain even without getting hurt. I feel insulted even without a single negative word out of his mouth. I don't know how to explain all this. I can't explain all this.


As of this moment, I am trying to change that. I am trying to have more confidence. I am trying to tell myself that it is OKAY.



Okay enough about sensitive issues. I would like to announce that i have CHANGED my kitten's NAME from ANGEL to DUCHESS. Angel seems too innocent a name for a cat. Duchess feels more appropriate. And she seems to like it too. I started calling her Duchess a few times today and she has shown signs that she knows her name. Yes, that was fast.


Apart from that, might I remind anyone out there who has a problem about how I take care of my kitten, I have NINE LIVING CATS at my house. If I have taken care of them since they were young and they are still healthy and loving cats now, you DO NOT have to condemn the way I take care of my TENTH kitten. I KNOW WHAT I'M DOING LAH. If you think you can take care of her better, let me see you have the guts to ask me to give her to you.


I mean, I've been training my cats just the right way though it may seem as if i don't give a shit. Truth is, YOU do not know how to take care of a cat. If it shits in your room or something, what are you gonna do? TALK to the cat and tell them its wrong?! They're cats, they need to KNOW that its wrong in a way that they can understand. Not by TALKING to them as if you're some animal whispere. JEEZ. Think about it. You'll sound as if you have an even lower IQ than the cat. THERE, I SAID IT. I just can't stand you people who have so many problems against me, yet act as if you agree with me. No offence to anyone, this is just a message to anyone who has a problem with it. Not that I already know of someone who does. I love my friends.<3








xxoo,
AdyyIskandar.♥♥

we are weapons.;)